Thursday, January 30, 2014

A Woman's Perspective on Breast Cancer

Speaking at breast cancer support groups, I realize that a woman's perspective is most important.  Sure, as a support partner I can comment on my experience, but I often ask my wife, "What would you tell other women who have received a breast cancer diagnosis?"

Her thoughts?

Regardless of the diagnosis/prognosis, keep hope alive.  This is an important ingredient in recovery.  Hope is where we embrace energy and discover the resiliency of the human spirit.

Don't rush to a conclusion.  Patients may feel a compulsion to make a decision--and to do so quickly--but in most cases, there is time to study, consult, pray, and reflect upon treatment options.

Consult. Consult.  Consult.  Enough said.

Stay positive.  Often, this is a difficult task.  But focus on the outcome, the end you are pursuing.  Surround yourself with positive people.  Eat well.  Rest.  Lay worry aside for a time each day to pursue interests and live for others.  Don't become so self-absorbed that you wallow in your diagnosis.


(Stay tuned for more Women's Perspectives . . . Part 2)

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